Seeking My Best Self

trying to make sense of my life – and lose some weight

The Injustice of it All

on September 24, 2013

I’ve been a wandering fool this year. Up to the Portland area. Two moves of my studio within P-town. Lots of exploring and trying on parts of the city for size. And through it all, the growing realization that there’s no place like home…

…and that as much as I LOVE PORTLAND, that’s not the loam where my roots twist and burrow.

salemSo last week, we moved back to the Cherry City. Well, outside it, actually, on a farm near Monmouth – a little college town that these days bears a strong resemblance to the Gilmore Girls’ Star’s Hollow.

I’m pissed. I am pissed as hell that Salem, stodgy old Salem is, for better or worse, home. I’ve been angry about it in the past. I’m beyond angry about it now that I’ve tried to return to the city of my childhood.

I’m mad at my late husband, who grew up in Salem and wanted to raise his kids in *his* hometown. Who after fifteen years decided he couldn’t take it anymore, killed himself, and left me stuck here, because my kids were firmly entrenched and I didn’t want to traumatize them any further by moving.

Where are those children today? They’re not here, of course. Salem isn’t their home, not anymore. They went away to college and developed new communities. They’ve tried to return…and left again. Most recently, Nick & Hanna returned with the intention of staying. They lasted three months before leaving because…well, it just isn’t home anymore. Their connections are elsewhere.

I’m pissed, pissed I tell you. I’m mad at the world, incensed with my fate…

and really, really happy to be back amongst those who know us, who love us, who are already filling our social calendar with happy reunions.

Needless to say, the only open thoroughfare in my psyche right now is Rollercoaster Road.

The injustice of it all! And the joy…

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3 responses to “The Injustice of it All

  1. Kristy says:

    Well. I’m not-so-secretly glad. I did my time in Monmouth (is it still a dry town?) and know that I love the place by the usual standard: I still have nightmares about it. I’m hoping to visit you and camp on your couch or in the barn or under the stars on the back forty–whatever. Monmouth works.

  2. Kristy says:

    Well. I’m not-so-secretly glad. I did my time in Monmouth (is it still a dry town?) and know that I love the place by the usual standard: I still have nightmares about it. I’m hoping to visit you and camp on your couch or in the barn or under the stars on the back forty–whatever. Monmouth works.

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